Reflecting...

The excitement seems to build as the weekend arrives. Even at the grocery store today, the employees in various departments were friendly and wishing customers a Happy Easter and a great weekend. I enjoyed the enthusiasm and kindness they showed. It is my wish that we continue to be a blessing to others every day of the year...and not just during springtime or Easter.

At the same time, my heart has been heavy on this "Good Friday." Our son came home from school last night quite ill and insisted on going to school this morning while we assured him that we would schedule a doctor's appointment today as soon as possible. He took his math test and then went to the doctor this afternoon. Micah isn't one to become ill very often but when he does, he is miserable. So we were relieved when he was prescribed medicine for the next ten days to help him recover. As a Mom, I am always very sad when our children are sick. I would much rather be ill than have them experience it. But I know he'll feel better soon and I'm so grateful for a great doctor, effective medicine and the joy of watching our son return to normal.

I can't help but think about another Mom many years ago who watched her Son suffer so terribly. She couldn't rescue Him. She couldn't get him to a doctor or give Him medicine to help Him feel better...or survive. She wasn't even clear that He would miraculously return in three days. But she was with Him in those final moments. I cannot imagine her heartache, her despair, her sense of loss as "her little boy" paid such a price for those He loves. Love endured it all as He did what He came to do...and as she loved Him through it. It seems kind of silly that we can't be more kind, thoughtful, respectful, loving and helpful to one another every day when others went through so much more in the name of love.

Sometimes folks comment that our journey to our little girl/s must be very difficult and challenging. I admit that it isn't always easy as we try to remain patient, hopeful and peaceful in the middle of waiting. But we always say "it's worth the wait"...not because we're lacking the human tendencies to miss our baby girl/s...and not because we have an unending amount of patience. We miss her so much every day! But...it IS worth the wait...and we will gladly walk this long journey...because that's what love does! And that's all that matters. We are enormously blessed to have this opportunity to welcome another precious child (or two) in our hearts and family. We are incredibly blessed to have wonderful friends who are so loving and supportive along this journey. We are indeed blessed to know that every step of this process moves us closer to bringing her home with us. Considering the price Someone paid for us, our journey seems quite simple for her. That's what love does!

Cherish this exciting weekend. Cherish your health, your loved ones, your hope and your joy. Cherish every moment of life and the opportunities to love one another. Be kind and compassionate to everyone in your daily journey. That's what love does!
Cherishing our journey of blessings and love,
Tim, Terri, Rachel and Micah